5 Questions to Ask Your Doctor That Aren't on the Form
Fine is a word. It isn't a measurement.
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The five questions worth asking at your annual physical: your top three personal risks, deeper bloodwork including ApoB, insulin and cortisol, inflammation markers like CRP, micronutrient levels, and brain health markers such as APOE. Standard labs skim the surface. These questions turn a routine appointment into a longevity conversation.
A calcium score of zero doesn't always mean your arteries are clear.
It can mean the plaque hasn't hardened yet.
That single distinction is the difference between a test that says fine and a test that tells you more. Soft plaque doesn't show up on a standard calcium score. In a large registry of people with chest symptoms and a calcium score of zero, about 16 percent still had plaque on a CT angiogram, and 3.5 percent had an artery at least half blocked.
Which is why I stopped walking into my annual check-up hoping to hear one word.
Fine doesn't mean thriving. Fine doesn't mean strong, joyful, or ageless. Fine often means no obvious fires to put out today.
Longevity isn't built on fine. It's built on curiosity. On asking better questions. On choosing to see your doctor as a partner in your vitality, not only a gatekeeper of prescriptions.
Here are five questions that turn a routine appointment into a conversation about living stronger, softer, and longer.
1. "Based on my age and lifestyle, what are my top three risks? And can we run deeper tests to clarify them?"
Worldwide, heart disease, cancer, lung disease and diabetes lead the list (World Health Organization). Your risks, though, depend on you... your family history, your habits, your hormones, even your zip code.
For example, if your doctor sees heart disease as a top concern, you could ask whether a coronary CT angiogram makes sense, sometimes read with AI plaque analysis such as Cleerly. Unlike a standard calcium score, it shows soft plaque as well as hardened plaque. Catching it early means you can step in with lifestyle changes before symptoms show up.
Honest framing: a CT angiogram uses contrast dye and some radiation, and insurance often won't cover it without symptoms. Ask what it costs and what you'd do differently with the result.
2. "Can we add fasting insulin, ApoB and cortisol to my usual bloodwork?"
Standard labs skim the surface. To see what's really happening, go deeper.
ApoB. A count of the particles that carry cholesterol into your artery walls. A 2019 review in JAMA Cardiology makes the case that it measures heart risk better than LDL cholesterol alone.
Fasting insulin. An early warning for insulin resistance, often before your blood sugar or HbA1c moves.
Cortisol. Your stress hormone. When it runs high for too long, it doesn't only weigh on your mood. It raises the risk of bone loss and high blood pressure. One blood draw is a snapshot, so ask your doctor which test fits your question.
These numbers don't only measure health. They measure resilience.
When “normal” isn’t the whole story
My own labs have always come back good, and I’ve been blessed with high energy. Yet I’ve sat with many clients whose labs came back “normal” while I could tell from our conversations that they didn’t feel well. So I encourage them to go back and ask more questions. Normal on paper and well in real life aren’t always the same thing.
3. "Can we check inflammation markers like C-reactive protein?"
Inflammation is the silent accelerant of aging. Researchers led by Claudio Franceschi call it inflammaging, a chronic, low-grade inflammation that builds with age and feeds age-related disease.
A simple high-sensitivity CRP blood test can show whether your body is quietly inflamed. Elevated CRP is linked to higher risk of heart disease. A cold or a hard workout can raise it for a few days, so one high number is a reason to retest, not to panic.
Heavy metal testing belongs only where there's a real exposure, like old paint or well water, and the "provoked" urine kits sold online aren't standard medical tests.
4. "Am I low on key nutrients like magnesium or zinc?"
Your body can't build strength or repair itself without its spark plugs: micronutrients.
Magnesium. Needed for muscle, for hormones, and for calm sleep. In U.S. survey data, about 48 percent of people got less magnesium from food than they need. A standard blood test can look normal even when stores run low, so your diet tells part of the story too.
Zinc. Vital for immunity, muscle repair, and even mood.
When these fall short, so does your energy. Testing where it's useful takes away the guesswork and lets you replenish with food first, and supplements where they make a real difference. CoQ10 often comes up here too. It isn't a routine lab, so I'd leave it off the list unless your doctor has a reason.
5. "Can we look at my brain health, like testing my APOE status?"
Alzheimer's doesn't begin when the memory fades. It begins decades earlier. The APOE e4 variant is the strongest common genetic risk factor for the late-onset form.
If you carry it, it doesn't mean you're destined. It means you're informed. And informed people can take action, through exercise, good food, deep sleep, and staying mentally and socially engaged.
Honest framing: APOE testing isn't routinely recommended for people without symptoms, and it can't tell you whether you'll get Alzheimer's. If you want it, ask for genetic counseling before and after. And know that the federal genetic privacy law, GINA, protects you in health insurance and at work, yet not in life, disability or long-term care insurance.
The deeper why
Asking these questions isn't about fear. It's about agency. It's about saying: I want to know the terrain of my body so I can navigate it well.
Your doctor brings the science. You bring the curiosity. Together you build a plan not only to add years to your life. To add life to your years.
Bring this: the five questions on one page
Print this, or screenshot it, and hand it over at the start of the visit, before the clock runs out. Write the answer next to each one.
For my physical
"I'd like to use this visit to look ahead. I have five questions."
- Based on my age, family history and habits, what are my top three risks, and is there a test that would clarify any of them?
- Can we add ApoB and fasting insulin to my bloodwork this year, along with HbA1c and cholesterol? Is a cortisol test worth it for me?
- Can we check high-sensitivity CRP?
- Could I be low on magnesium or zinc, and what would tell us?
- Is APOE testing right for me, and could I have genetic counseling before and after?
For anything we skip: what would the result change, and what will we watch instead? If insurance says no, what's the cash price?
Frequently asked questions about what to ask at your annual physical
Will insurance cover these extra blood tests?
Often some of them, not always all. ApoB, fasting insulin and hs-CRP are usually inexpensive blood tests, while CT angiograms and genetic tests can cost hundreds of dollars when insurance won't cover them. Ask your doctor's office for the billing codes and call your insurer before the draw.
Is APOE testing a good idea?
It's a personal choice, and it isn't routinely recommended for people without symptoms because it can't predict whether you'll get Alzheimer's. If you want to know, ask for genetic counseling before and after the test. GINA protects you in health insurance and employment, yet not in life, disability or long-term care insurance.
What if my doctor says no to a test?
Ask what the test would change and what they'd watch instead. A good answer is still an answer. If a test truly matters to you, a second opinion or a doctor who focuses on prevention can be a reasonable next step.
Where to start
Your body holds the answers, if you know how to ask the right questions.
Two places to start. The free two-minute Science & Soul Assessment will tell you where your body is right now and what to do first. And if you want the room where this actually gets built with you, Cohort 3 of The Ageless Reset begins February 1, 2027, with enrollment open December 1 through January 25. Six weeks of transformation, then a full year of community and support, because progress isn't a straight line and you deserve to be held through the dips, not only the wins. The waitlist hears first.
Because fine isn't the goal. Alive is.
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I see you. You're not behind, and I've got you.
With love, Kim
Sources
Villines TC, et al. Prevalence and severity of coronary artery disease and adverse events among symptomatic patients with coronary artery calcification scores of zero undergoing coronary computed tomography angiography. Journal of the American College of Cardiology. 2011;58(24):2533-2540. CONFIRM registry, 10,037 symptomatic patients; among those with a calcium score of zero, 13 percent had non-obstructive plaque and 3.5 percent had at least 50 percent narrowing on CT angiography. Symptomatic patients, so not a screening population. doi.org/10.1016/j.jacc.2011.10.851
Sniderman AD, et al. Apolipoprotein B particles and cardiovascular disease: a narrative review. JAMA Cardiology. 2019. Argues that apoB, present once on each atherogenic particle, is a more accurate marker of risk than LDL or non-HDL cholesterol. A review, not a new trial. doi.org/10.1001/jamacardio.2019.3780
Franceschi C, et al. Inflammaging: a new immune-metabolic viewpoint for age-related diseases. Nature Reviews Endocrinology. 2018. Describes inflammaging as chronic, sterile, low-grade inflammation that develops with age and contributes to age-related disease. doi.org/10.1038/s41574-018-0059-4
Rosanoff A, et al. Suboptimal magnesium status in the United States: are the health consequences underestimated? Nutrition Reviews. 2012;70(3):153-164. In 2005 to 2006 national survey data, 48 percent of the U.S. population consumed less than the required amount of magnesium from food. doi.org/10.1111/j.1753-4887.2011.00465.x
National Human Genome Research Institute. Genetic Information Nondiscrimination Act (GINA) patient resource. GINA's protections cover health insurance and employment and do not apply to life, long-term care or disability insurance. www.genome.gov/sites/default/files/media/files/2020-09/GINA_patient_resource.pdf
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